Despite
the heart wrenching neglect faced by both boys, Chapter 6 made me feel the most
hope and joy of any of the chapters. Based on the title of the book and
chapter, I had an idea of what the chapter would entail, but the description
was still haunting. The physical effects of the unintentional neglect Justin
experienced were astounding. Dr. Perry mentioned that Justin didn’t stand or
walk because he didn’t have anyone to steady or encourage him, but I thought
about it from an even more basic, physical nature. Despite Justin being let out
of his cage daily, I cannot imagine it was enough for his legs to develop
enough strength to stand, moreover walk. Any muscle his body might have built,
likely atrophied from lack of use. I also pictured an attending physician showing
Justin’s brain scans to a group of residents or interns, without any other
information, and asking them to diagnose the patient. I can only imagine their
reactions when they found out his age. Fortunately, Justin did not have Alzheimer’s
disease and his condition could improve.
I laughed
a few times throughout the chapter; the first time was during the story that
led Dr. Perry to realize Justin had the capacity to change. I loved Perry’s
connection between a primitive sense of humor and his ability to connect with
others- not to mention the story was funny. As Perry began to help Justin
access his capacity to change, the phrases of “patterned, repetitive experience”
and “safe environment” surfaced. I noticed the same phrases being used in the description
of Connor’s treatment. Dr. Perry’s treatment reminded me of many of the
concepts in Attachment Theory. At the end of the chapter, he mentioned the
ability of children to feel a certain level of competence and mastery when they
have a “nurturing ‘home base’”. Home base is a common term used in Attachment
Theory. From what I understand, it sounds that Dr. Perry was trying to create “secure-attachment
relationships” for the two boys. Previously, the boys had experienced inconsistent,
unpredictable attachment- either avoidant, ambivalent or disorganized- and
their schema of relationships developed based on their early interactions. Through
consistent, repetitive stimulation, the boys were able to adapt their schemas.
One of the
sections I found most interesting was the discussion of the course of
development for a baby’s rhythm. I had never considered this crucial aspect of
development. I enjoyed the section on the soothing impact of a mother’s
heartbeat, because a similar occurrence happens in puppies (I promise I don’t
think children are dogs; I just really love dogs). My grandpa was a vet and he
would always tell us to put a clock in a puppy’s kennel at night to keep it
from whining. I didn’t understand why for the longest time, until my dad told
me that it mimics the mother’s heartbeat in the womb. I thought that was
brilliant and I wonder if putting a ticking clock in/near a baby’s crib would
soothe the baby. I haven’t heard of it being done before, so it may not work
the same.
One of the kids where I currently work at had this sound device that we would turn on for him whenever it was bedtime. The device had different settings that could be adjusted, depending on what type of sounds you wanted it to emit. One of the sounds that the machine played was the sound of a heartbeat. The kid who used the machine had to have the heartbeat effect playing every single night without fail as he fell asleep. He'd otherwise be restless and would not be as quick to fall asleep. For a time it was honestly somewhat bizarre to me but then I quickly came to understand why and how it can be so soothing for a child, and even an adult. There's something about rhythm and repetition that can be unusually soothing and satisfying, whether it's the sound of a raindrop, a metronome, or a heartbeat. What I did find curious though is that his roommate totally hated having to hear the heartbeat every night. While it was beneficial for one child to hear the beats, it had the opposite effect for the other.
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